An aged grandparent died this morning; he was 100 years old and one month exactly.  A very very kind man.   Once about five or so years ago I said to him: "Grandpa Jack, I've never heard you say a nasty thing about anybody.  Ever.   Is this a conscious decision on your part?  Do you deliberately hold your tongue or are you just always nice?   Have you ever said something aloud that was unkind?"  He considered for a moment and said, "I've heard that Hitler wasn't such a great guy." 
His older sister died a few years ago at 104.   She had been losing her hearing for some years.   Once, when she was about 100, her son asked if she wouldn't like to get a hearing aid.  "No," she said.  "I've heard enough."
 
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